“should I let him go for good?”

dear apricot,

Me and my ex-boyfriend decided to get back together last Monday. He broke my heart by breaking up with me for someone else! I’ve decided to give him another shot, but he’s acting the least like a boyfriend. He doesn’t call me, text, etc., and when he does it’s only for five minutes because he has to handle “business”. Deep down, I believe that he doesn’t want anyone to know about us, but then again, I don’t really know what to believe. I know that I should talk to him but I’ve been trying to for a week now. When I call him to talk about our situation he always claims that he’ll call me back (which he never does).

Should I break up with him or talk to him?

— anonymous.

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Anonymous,

I think it is very obvious what the answer to this one is. He doesn’t call you, he barely sees you, & you have a hunch already that he may not even want people to know that you’re together. That is not a relationship, by any means. It is absolutely one-sided! Not only is this guy taking advantage of you, but he is disrespecting you! You shouldn’t have to “try” to talk to your boyfriend; he should genuinely want to talk to you all on his own, because he enjoys your company.

I’m going to give you some tough-love right now: You need to ditch this guy. No more trying to talk sense into his head; no more waiting, & no more chances. Break up with this guy, & don’t look back. It was kind of you to try to give your relationship another go, especially after he broke up with you for someone else, but he is wasting your time. This “relationship” is pointless, & I think deep down in your heart, you know it, too. Give your love & affection to a man who deserves it, because this guy does NOT deserve it. & you can do so much better.

— apricot.

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