Comments on: “his female friends sleepover at his house!” http://askapricot.com/2009/08/his-female-friends-sleepover-at-his-house/ down-to-earth advice about beauty, love, fashion, & life. Mon, 01 Feb 2010 19:40:03 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Naomi http://askapricot.com/2009/08/his-female-friends-sleepover-at-his-house/comment-page-1/#comment-1402 Naomi Fri, 25 Sep 2009 15:43:33 +0000 http://askapricot.com/?p=608#comment-1402 I agree with Connie. If you trust him otherwise, it shouldn't be a problem for you if he allows friends to stay over, whether female or male. If he makes them stay elsewhere, it may prevent them from visiting him easily. So asking him to do that may be like asking him not to be friends with those girls at all. I let my male friends who have girlfriends stay over, and they do the same for me. There's no disrespect meant, although I understand it might make the absent partner uneasy. One of my best male friends used to sleep in my bed for weeks at a time, and I had to explain to someone I was seeing about it, before he got the wrong idea. He needed some reassurance, but once he had that, he never suggested I stop doing it. Not everything is about sex! The thing is, if a guy -- or a girl for that matter -- is untrustworthy, he'll always find a way to deceive you, whether you allow him to host his female friends or not. I agree with Connie. If you trust him otherwise, it shouldn’t be a problem for you if he allows friends to stay over, whether female or male. If he makes them stay elsewhere, it may prevent them from visiting him easily. So asking him to do that may be like asking him not to be friends with those girls at all.

I let my male friends who have girlfriends stay over, and they do the same for me. There’s no disrespect meant, although I understand it might make the absent partner uneasy. One of my best male friends used to sleep in my bed for weeks at a time, and I had to explain to someone I was seeing about it, before he got the wrong idea. He needed some reassurance, but once he had that, he never suggested I stop doing it. Not everything is about sex!

The thing is, if a guy — or a girl for that matter — is untrustworthy, he’ll always find a way to deceive you, whether you allow him to host his female friends or not.

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