http://askapricot.com/2009/10/i-cant-stop-wondering-about-my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend/ down-to-earth advice about beauty, love, fashion, & life. Mon, 01 Feb 2010 19:40:03 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 http://askapricot.com/2009/10/i-cant-stop-wondering-about-my-boyfriends-ex-girlfriend/comment-page-1/#comment-1667 Anna Wed, 14 Oct 2009 18:47:21 +0000 http://askapricot.com/?p=751#comment-1667 Great answer & I believe in this wholeheartedly. Do take into consideration all of the things that you've done in your life before him - I realize that they aren't sexual, but that doesn't matter. He isn't insisting on knowing everything in your background, so, why is it fair for you to do that to him? It is understandable to be fearful of his more advanced sexuality, but that doesn't have to be the barrier to your relationship. I was once in this situation and it was scary - but you need to make these feelings clear and if he doesn't accept that, then he's not worth it. Ev'Yan is right in saying to follow your heart - it always knows better than our brains. =] Best of luck. Great answer & I believe in this wholeheartedly.
Do take into consideration all of the things that you’ve done in your life before him – I realize that they aren’t sexual, but that doesn’t matter. He isn’t insisting on knowing everything in your background, so, why is it fair for you to do that to him?
It is understandable to be fearful of his more advanced sexuality, but that doesn’t have to be the barrier to your relationship. I was once in this situation and it was scary – but you need to make these feelings clear and if he doesn’t accept that, then he’s not worth it.
Ev’Yan is right in saying to follow your heart – it always knows better than our brains. =]
Best of luck.

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